Most people want a partner- someone they can depend on and share their life with. It can be difficult to find, though. It can be tough to find a date, especially a great date. There are a few things you can do when looking for a compatible date, though, like consider those around you that you may not normally consider dating. You never know who you are going to fall in love with until you date them. Someone whom you’d least expect to be compatible with may be the person you are mean to be with.

It can be a difficult decision, but once we have found someone that we want to date how do we know what the rules are? The world in constantly changing and so are the rules. What are the man’s and woman’s roles in dating? What should a man do? What should a woman do? Who should pay for what? These questions can be confusing for everyone. Lets take it one step at a time and answer a few of the most simple dating concerns.

When it comes to the question of who asks who out, it doesn’t really matter. Most of the time, the men prefer the women to ask them out because it is such a relief. It can be very intimidating to ask a women out on a date and maybe face rejection.

In the case of the dinner bill, the man should pay for it. Women still want their date to be a gentlemen and it does say a lot about a man if they allow the woman to pay.

Women still prefer the guy to arrange the date. They may state their preference but the man should make the arrangements and make the final decisions. They should make it special and make it look like they put some thought and effort into the planning of the date.

In the 21st century it may seem like a lot of things should be different when it comes to dating. Really, most things have not changed. Things are a little bit more flexible, but overall dating is still as confusing as ever. It you stick to the basic rules your date should come off a lot more smoothly.

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